E11 | Are You A “Martha”?

In this episode, we talk about the topic of being "Martha" in the movie "The Notebook" and how that role can easily become one that you play in your life. Allowing yourself to beg for love, waiting to be chosen, and always available for someone who never really invests in you. 

I discuss how I was a Martha for most of my life when it came to men and how I course corrected that at the end of my healing journey. I talk about where that void came from and unpacked why I played that role for so long in my life, but one that I realized I didn't want to play anymore.

We end this episode with talking points of being in your "single season" and how to love yourself while grieving the role you played because you didn't know differently. We go into how to recover from playing "Martha" and learning how to choose yourself by investing in yourself. 

P.S. This episode is dedicated to all the women who have begged for another for love because they had to earn it has young girls from people who were supposed to give it naturally. This episode is dedicated to all the women who never felt "enough" and have to keep giving themselves to be "chosen". This one is for you from one "Martha" to another. I say this with love ... heal, so that you never play this role again.